Unwanted Fraternity

A coed fraternity of broken people who understand one another simply because of our circumstances. If you are unquestionably broken, you are not alone. This won’t take the pain away, but it may help to know there are hosts of people and God Himself who understand what you’re feeling. One day death will be swallowed up where there is no more. Until then, Jesus knows your pain and wants to walk with you in it - and so do we. Welcome to the Unwanted Fraternity.

Episodes

Oct 9, 2025

28 min

Do you feel like you have lost you identity after loss?  Join Greg and Jen as they discuss this feeling that both of them felt after their losses. Jerry Sittser does a great job with this topic in his book in chapter 6, "The Amputation of the Familiar Self". It goes deep into this idea that the familiar self is lost and a new identity must be formed.

Oct 2, 2025

35 min

Did you change after your loss? Many people go through a process of changing who they used to be whether that be because of losing someone or losing a marriage or losing your health. Join Greg and Jen as they discuss this topic.

Sep 25, 2025

38 min

The feeling between the initial stage of grief and the potential of the future can leave you feeling stuck.  In this episode, Greg and Jen discuss from both perspectives how difficult this place can be and how challenging it is to look toward the future.

Sep 18, 2025

38 min

In this episode, Greg and Jen talk about the part of grief that causes you to ask the "what if" questions.  Hear both sides of this from the perspective of losing a spouse and the perspective of divorce.  Lastly, they end with a discussion on anger and ultimately how important it is to find hope in the Lord.

Sep 11, 2025

38 min

Join Greg and Jen as they discuss the topic of pain.  They jump into the topic of feeling sorrow and joy at the same time. 

Sep 3, 2025

38 min

Join Greg and Jen as they discuss chapter 3 of Jerry Sittser's book A Grace Disguised. In this episode, Greg shares about his own experience with  darkness after losing his first wife and how he found hope in Christ. 

Aug 26, 2025

26 min

Join Greg and Jen as they begin a deep dive into A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows Through Grief by Jerry Sittser.  This book offers such hope in the midst of catastrophic loss.  Throughout this series, we will look at response to grief and share stories of ours and those of others.  In this episode, Greg and Jen discuss chapters 1 and 2 of the book.

Aug 14, 2025

34 min

Join Greg and Jen as they discuss the importance of prayer in any season of life.  

Aug 8, 2025

32 min

What does it look like to trust God with your whole heart even when your circumstances are difficult?  Greg and Jen discuss some practical ways you can do this while also sharing their own experiences of loss and trusting God in the middle of it all.

Jul 31, 2025

28 min

Being still before the Lord can be difficult at times especially when you are going through grief.  This particular discipline takes practice and patience.  Greg and Jen discuss what Scripture says about this practice and how it can really bring peace to your life.

Greg and Jen Tonkinson

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