Unwanted Fraternity

UF Realities - Acutely Alone

On this episode, Jen & Greg will take a sharp turn from their recent conversations involving biblical community and address the issue that if we’re being honest, so many Fraternity members struggle with, and that is being alone.  In fact, the couple will be addressing what it means to be Acutely Alone, and how members of the Fraternity can live in community and at the same time go through severe, intense seasons of feeling alone. Finally, Jen & Greg will look to Jesus and glean from Him what to do in those moments of being acutely alone. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Storytelling is Good

In this episode, Jen and Greg will discuss the value of telling our stories. They will share several reasons why sharing our stories of loss, pain, and brokenness is not only helpful for others, it's incredibly cathartic for the one sharing. Jen and Greg will also read and discuss two powerful stories sent in from two Fraternity members, Nora and Tammy, who navigate loss that involves family members.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Caden and Bailey Tonkinson Interview Pt 2

In this episode, Jen and Greg continue their conversation with Caden and Bailey Tonkinson, discussing experiencing grief as a child. Caden (22) and Bailey (18) are Greg's bio kids and Jen's step-kids. Caden was 10 yrs old and Bailey was 6 yrs old when they lost their mother, Leigh Ann, as she was killed waiting at a stoplight. The two will discuss community, family, and advice for other youth. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Caden and Bailey Tonkinson Interview Pt 1

In this episode, Jen and Greg sit down with Caden and Bailey Tonkinson to discuss experiencing grief as a child. Caden (22) and Bailey (18) are Greg's bio kids and Jen's step-kids. Caden was 10 yrs old and Bailey was 6 yrs old when they lost their mother, Leigh Ann, as she was killed waiting at a stoplight. Listen, from a child's perspective, how two boys dealt with the devastating news and how they navigated their own grief. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Community Can Be Messy

In this episode, Jen & Greg discuss the challenges that can arise when we try to do community with others. Being in community, even biblical community, can be messy for several reasons and not the least of which because we struggle to handle grief well. What to say and what to do when someone in our community is hurting can be difficult. Listen in to some practical ways to biblical community well!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Community is a Beautiful Thing

In this episode, Jen & Greg encourage Unwanted Fraternity members by discussing the desire, need, and benefits of being in biblical community. Community is necessary to grieve well but it can be challenging for one reason - community involves people! Listen in and be encouraged!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Hope is What Gets Us Up Each Day

In this episode, Jen & Greg remind the weary Unwanted Fraternity member that hope is granted to all believers in Christ which is so important to remember in your time of pain. Rather than seeing hope as "wishful thinking," this episode will turn to Scripture and confirm that hope is anything but wishful thinking. Rather, you can live your life this side of heaven with confidence that God is not only doing a work in your life (even during your suffering), but that He is also preparing a place for you in glory! Be encouraged by listening to this episode!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Faith is Found in UF Members

In this episode, Jen & Greg walk through the importance of maintaining faith during your season of grief and suffering. Defining faith is key to this discussion. As well, Jen & Greg will focus in on two aspects of faith: those mountain-top moments we need to be trusting God in, and those daily moments when getting to work on time is a victory! Finally, you'll be offered some "faith principles" that will help you maintain your faith when it is needed most. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

UF Realities - Doubting God

After doing a 3-part series on Anger, we thought it was fitting to discuss a natural result of being angry - doubting God. What does it really mean when we think of doubting God? What is it that we are honestly doubting? Join Greg and Jen as they jump in and discuss this weighty issue!
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UF Realities - Anger Pt 3: Can I Be Angry at God?

In this third of three episodes, Greg and Jen discuss being angry at God. Can we be angry at God? Or is there a better way to live in right relationship with our Heavenly Father that is authentic but also reverent? We will address some similarities and differences between being angry and lamenting. This matters because sometimes God is the target of our frustration and we need to get this right! Hear powerful stories from other Fraternity members as well!
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